(These were ideas from Amy Dacyczyn’s fun book, The Tightwad Gazette...)

Need a unique gift for him? This is one of the most creative gift ideas I've ever run across - so special, and it doesn't cost a dime...

This is for the helpful spouse (who needs encouragement?)... One jar is for the "honey-do" requests - each to be written on a slip of paper. The other jar is for coupons from you... like for a back rub, a special meal, getting to watch football all afternoon, etc. Spouse reaches in for a request - when it’s completed, s/he reaches in for a thank-you coupon as compensation. (Well, I guess that if you have to prioritize the requests, you can make do with just a Honey-Thanks jar.)

Or perhaps you'd just like to say thanks, in various ways?