There are so many practical gift ideas (and
creativity is not absent here)...
What is he running out of? (An elderly relative
on a fixed income might like to be taken
out to dinner, but what he really needs
might be a roll of stamps, or a case of cat food.)
What needs to be repaired? (A single mom in her
own house would like the popcorn balls,
sure - but what she really needs is to
have her plumbing fixed!)
What needs replacing? (An author might indeed appreciate
the offer to weed his flower beds, but what he
really needs is a new thesaurus because
his - from 1960 - is falling apart.)
What does she need help with? (If her unbalanced
checkbook preys on her mind, give her a coupon for
a monthly balancing act! The elderly often rather
desperately need help with housework... give a
coupon for your own work, or perhaps you can
afford to hire it done monthly for a year?)
Your sensitivity to what someone really needs
will be greatly appreciated (assuming your
offering isn’t too private or likely to be seen as
patronizing). Remember, it’s not what you
think she needs that matters... If she feels she
needs a night at the opera more than a new
nightgown, take her to the opera!
Think how great an impact your gift of pet health
insurance could have for an elderly pet owner on a
pension (or simply get a gift certificate to the
critter’s vet).
A friend of mine gives me the gift of proofing
what I write - it’s fabulous.
Then you may know someone with such a deep need
for uplift that a Twelve Gifts of Christmas effort
is in order... Possibly your family or a group of
friends would like to do this, for someone who is
depressed, grieving, facing a severe illness or
disappointment: On the first day of
Christmas (i.e., 11 days prior to the 24th), leave
a single gift on the doorstep (or have someone
unknown to the recipient deliver the present - if
possible, singing the first line of the
song!: "...my good friends gave to me, a
[whatever the gift is]!"). The next day, deliver
two gifts; etc. Each gift idea will be
different depending on the person's personality
and situation; none have to be expensive; at least
occasional humor helps. ...And the expectation of
all 12 days' treats is uplifting in itself! No
one will forget this year...
Or find someone in great need of financial and/or
other help and round up friends or family to be
that person's "secret Santa" for the holidays,
providing necessities in advance of
Christmas - like cash, so that the person can
purchase gifts for others. Other options would be
pre-wrapped gifts (or gifts plus wrapping paper)
for the person's kids/grandkids, gift certificates
to stores or restaurants, frozen cookie dough,
stamps and Christmas cards, even sending over
prepaid repair or yard cleanup people as needed.
Again, you can have someone unknown to the
recipient deliver the gift package if you'd like
to remain anonymous. Either way, this is the kind
of present that tends to get passed on in some
fashion - so the gift is even bigger than you
might think.